Jennifer Lopez reflected on her 1999 hit song "If You Had My Love," stating that to earn her love, one must "treat me right," respect her, and accept her fully. She shared this during a performance, linking the song's meaning to her personal experiences. Lopez, who has been married four times, recently filed for divorce from Ben Affleck after remarrying him in 2022, following their initial engagement and split in the early 2000s due to public pressure.