A woman has sought advice on Mumsnet about initiating a 'sleep divorce' from her husband, citing his disruptive sleeping habits as 'torture.' She describes his fidgeting, snoring, bathroom trips, and duvet-pulling as causing severe sleep deprivation, impacting her daily alertness. The woman fears hurting his feelings by suggesting separate beds, a move she worries could lead to actual divorce, while also concerned about health implications of broken sleep.