The article argues that the relentless pursuit of self-improvement and perfection is ultimately unsustainable and potentially harmful. It suggests that recognizing human fallibility, both in oneself and others, leads to more realistic expectations and functional relationships. The author posits that protecting one's peace, attention, and time is not selfish but a form of self-stewardship, enabling genuine offering. Solitude is presented as a valuable tool for self-calibration and rediscovering one's own company without external validation.